Planning for burial, cremation, funerals and ways to commemorate life
It can be difficult for your family and friends to guess what your after-death wishes might be without clear instructions. Let them know your preferred way to go.
There's more to planning for our own death than writing a will. Why not have a say in the music played at your funeral, or what happens to your body after you die?
Putting plans in place now can help reduce some of the stress on your family and friends in the future. You can update your plans at any time if your preferences change.
This page covers:
- making plans for your body after death
- making plans for your funeral and/or ways to commemorate your life—how you would like to be farewelled and remembered
- talking with others about your choices for burial or cremation
- where you can go for further information and resources.
Making plans for your body after death
There are many burial and cremation options and prices across NSW. It is a good idea to make enquiries about the options and talk about them with family or friends.
Interment refers to burials and ash cremations in cemeteries. It means the:
- placement of human remains in a mausoleum, vault, columbarium or other structure designed for the placement of such remains, or
- burial in the earth of human remains, directly in the earth or in a container.
An interment right is a contract with a cemetery operator that allows interment to take place in a particular location in a cemetery. The right is purchased, and the holder is the only person able to choose who can be interred at the site. In NSW there are two types of interment rights:
- Perpetual interment rights allow for remains to be left in place forever.
- Renewable interment rights allow for remains to be left in place for a limited period, between 25 and 99 years.
Cemetery operators should provide a plain English statement of the terms and conditions for your interment rights, including a clear statement on the length of time you can use the burial plot and your obligations for future maintenance of the burial site.
When cremated ashes are not buried—such as when they are kept at home in an urn or scattered outside—there are no interment rights.
Further information is available in Cemeteries & Crematoria NSW’s General consumer guide to interment rights in NSW (PDF, 604KB).
There are several affordable and environmentally sustainable options to consider, including burial in a shroud, cardboard or bamboo coffin, or at a green or natural burial ground. For cremation, biodegradable coffins can be used. Elsewhere there are emerging options that may become available later in NSW.
Compared to burial, cremation can be significantly cheaper. Research by Australian Seniors in 2019 found the average cost of a standard burial and funeral in Australia is $9,400, while the average cost of a standard cremation and funeral in Australia is $5,600.
The high cost of burial in Australia’s capital cities is driven in large part by a shortage of land for burial as well as cemetery maintenance. In NSW, a standard burial and funeral ranges from $7,900 outside of non- metropolitan Sydney to $16,200 in metropolitan Sydney. A standard cremation and funeral ranges from $4,900 outside of non-metropolitan Sydney to $6,200 in metropolitan Sydney. Further information is available in Cemeteries & Crematoria NSW’s General consumer guide to interment rights in NSW (PDF, 604KB).
Paying for after-death options
To avoid the sudden cost of burial, cremation or a funeral or leaving this burden with family, you can:
- prepay for burial, cremation and funerals
- allocate savings to a specific bank account or other financial institution such as early release of a fixed amount from a superannuation fund.
For more information, visit these NSW Government websites:
- NSW Fair Trading for costs and prepay products
- LawAccess NSW if you or the person who died cannot pay for the funeral.
. These costs are averages across a range of burial, cremation and funeral products and services.
Holding a funeral or being formally farewelled is optional. If you choose to do so, you and your family and friends can make arrangements yourselves—there is no legal requirement in NSW to use a funeral director. However, most people in NSW engage a funeral director, whose professional guidance and experience can help at what can be a sensitive time.
You can have a service or event that is as traditional or unique as you want. It can adhere to your values, beliefs or cultural requirements, your interests and your specific requests.
There are no set fees for funerals, gatherings or memorials in NSW and costs vary depending on the cemetery, crematorium, venue, scope of the event and the level of service provided by the funeral director you work with.
If you use a funeral director, they must provide you with a quote and itemised breakdown of costs in writing. This is a legal requirement in NSW.
Funeral directors in NSW must also comply with NSW Fair Trading’s information standard for funeral goods and services, which is aimed at ensuring transparency of costs and goods provided. The lowest cost funeral packages must be displayed and itemised in funeral directors’ materials.
A will is a legal document that states your wishes, including who should receive your assets such as money, car, shares, property, photos and jewellery after you die. It may also include your wishes for funeral, memorial, burial, cremation or other after-death arrangements, but typically a will is not made available until after the funeral.
An interment right (where you have purchased a burial plot for example) is part of your assets and can be distributed with other assets in your will.
Complications can arise in families when there are multiple beneficiaries and it is not clear which beneficiary in the will has been allocated the interment right.
This is complicated further if you die intestate (without a will) or you have not specified in your will what your intentions are in relation to the interment right. A will that is specific about what you would like to do with your interment right can help avoid these situations.
While a will is a good prompt for planning and communicating preferences for burial or cremation and ways of being remembered, nothing is better than communicating wishes to your family or friends in advance.
In Australia, you must nominate a person or persons to be the executor(s) of your will. They will also be responsible for ensuring the disposal of your body in line with your wishes. If you have no nominated executor, it is the responsibility of your next-of-kin.
NOTE: the executor is not legally bound by the body-disposal or funeral directions you have outlined in your will, except that the body must not be cremated if you specified this.
There is no substitute for communicating your after-death wishes clearly with your executor and your family or friends. Conflict within your family or friendship circle may arise if you have not communicated your wishes clearly.
For information about making a will, visit the NSW Government’s end-of-life planning webpage
Resources to help you plan
Starting the conversation with friends and family can help you prepare emotionally for death and help ensure your wishes are met after you die. Make sure you let the people around you know what you would prefer to happen with your body after you die.
The GroundSwell Project is an Australian charity promoting greater public awareness and understanding about dying and after-death planning.
To start a conversation about death with your family and friends, try out the Dying to Talk discussion starters developed by Palliative Care Australia, the peak body for palliative care.
Around 380 operators provide burial and/or cremation services across NSW. These include Crown, private and community operators as well as local councils.
Using a funeral director is not mandatory—the choice is yours. However, most people in NSW do use a funeral director as they provide valuable expertise, guidance and support across a range of goods and services relating to burial, cremation and ways to commemorate life. They work closely with consumers and families to ensure preferences are upheld and wishes are carried out. There are a range of funeral directors in NSW, from large companies to family businesses and not-for-profit organisations. You can find a funeral director through the following professional associations:
An end-of-life doula is a person who provides emotional, social, spiritual and practical support to people who are planning for after death. Doulas usually work alongside a funeral director, and some doulas are also funeral directors.
Visit the Australian Doula College and End of Life Doula Directory if you'd like to find a doula to help you.
The NSW Government has a comprehensive online service called Life Events. It is a guide for people in NSW who are making after-death arrangements for themselves or someone close to them.
It provides consumers and families with information on end-of-life services, including how to:
- make a will
- organise assets and legal and financial matters
- put in place advance care health directives
- register for and notify of death services.
. Life Events includes up-to-date advice on NSW Government’s COVID-19 funeral restrictions.
- If you die at home, you can potentially stay at home for up to five days before the body is transferred into the care of the funeral director. It may be possible to take the body home from wherever it is being held. A funeral director can help, prior to the person’s death, by advising and providing services relating to how to keep the body at home, its transportation and use of a registered mortuary.
- You can buy a coffin or shroud directly from some suppliers—it may be rosewood timber, cardboard, wicker or wool—or make one yourself. Check first with your funeral director or cemetery/crematorium staff to get the correct coffin specifications.
- If you want, you can arrange your ceremony or service yourself, including organising location, speakers and a celebrant.
- You have the choice to have your ceremony at home or elsewhere if you’d prefer somewhere other than a space at a cemetery or crematorium, which will need to be organised prior to a person’s death.
Learn more about the options available in NSW including answers to some common questions in planning for after death.
When someone you love dies, it’s normal to have feelings of sadness or grief. If you need help, many organisations and services can help you, your friends and family to manage grief. Services that can help are listed at Life Events under Get support